If you can, buy your first harness in real life rather than online so you can try it on. First things first, you want to make sure you have the right. I (22 nb) have a qpp (23 bigender) who really likes to be strapped.

We went out together to pick a harness and dildo to use with it, and she really… Webwhen choosing a dildo, there are a few factors to take into consideration: Features a versatile, minimalist design.